sometimes we need to listen before speaking

So hard to understand why God does what he does...when he does it.....To understand and see after everything had passed is a little easier to understand but at the time it isn't!!!!

Why do people think they need to always say something......I'm finding out as my many years go past me (almost 29) :) I realize that the more you say the worse it gets!!!

If its a death, singleness, loss of a baby, accident, not getting pregnant, health, cancer.....what ever it is, im finding that less words is better.......If someone in your life is going through something right now really think about it before you speak!!!! You really don't know what is going on in their hearts, you can ask if they are doing ok, if they need anything, say I LOVE you!!!!, say your praying for them.....don't give them a lecture on.... you know how they feel, or how God knows what he's doing.......if we have Faith we already know that God loves us.....but at that moment we question it, but we come back to him and know that he is doing it for the good of us and the world!! but we don't want to hear preaching!!! We want to know that you love us and are watching out for us and praying......cuz when you are going through something it is really hard to pray yourself.....its more of yelling at God or pleading with him!!!!

So the next time someone in your life is going through something.....stop, pray, think, and say few words, may be send a card saying you are thinking of them!!!! Just listen, they may not talk right away but just listening helps.......you may find that you start to come closer to your friend or family and even Christ!!!

Please pray for my family!